Rape fantasies: an update

Since I’ve received quite a lot of negative feedback on my first post about this apparently sensitive topic, I’d like to make a few things clear.

I’m not against this type of thing (mainly going public with the fantasies, not anyone having them in secret) for moral reasons. What bothers me is when one woman’s fantasy gets another woman raped. (And that’s already happened, at least on a couple of occasions – it’s been used as a defense in court). Whatever you might think of me, I’m not a prude. I’m open to many things, just not this (and a few other things that I’m not going to go into here).

Secondly, I know perfectly well that fantasies are fantasies, nothing more. What worries me is whether all men know this too and if so, will they respect it? That’s all.

Having said that, I’d like to point out that I know men fantasize about being raped and have known about it for years. I’m perfectly ok with that, as long as these men don’t automatically assume that all women like that sort of thing too. That’s no excuse for raping a woman. I didn’t think that even needed to be said, but apparently it does.

I’m sure it’s fun for someone big and strong to (pretend to) give up control and submit to someone else, knowing that if the game got out of hand, they can easily put a stop to it. Great for them.

For similar reasons, I’m also perfectly ok with male prostitution. Because of their physical strength, they don’t run the same risks as women do.